I was very interested in the topic, but after reading all the treads, i couldnt find any thing that is common in all responses. Maybe just that all are in a way grateful that they found that special somebody, but couldnt find anything in common. Anybopdy can help me with this?? Waht could you point that is commun and appears in all relations that make this person so good??. I got the same feelings when i ask question to my vanilla friends (girls) Same happends whith them, they answer me and when i go into teirs life, is a totally different situation. I first notice this, when sometimes i talk to my friends that were having a bad moment w their bf, they sound like they were going to dump him as soon as they see him again, but after several days, they were happy w him again. ????? Maybe is a girl thing, or maybe i should follow an old saying that states: Don`t try to understand women, u just have to love them.