So here I am, desperate for knowledge and I'm at my wits end about learning, then I find this place so I figured I'd give it a go. Here my run down. I've been pretty much vanilla sex for my active years, a poor tie up here and there and mild SM type stuff.

My current relationship, my women has turned me onto BDSM and I'm way gung-ho to be the best master/dom I can. She's a switch but prefers to be a sub and really has a desire for a master/pet relationship, I wouldn't say 24/7 but it'd end up being active in our daily lives. Thus far I've gotten a collar and cuffs and have done some bondage, though pretty basic(ei chaining her to a bed and having my way) and have done some SM, spanking is the only punishment I have really tried since that's my only idea when she gets unruly and doesn't listen.

Pretty much I need the full run down, where to start, what to do, how to keep control and dominance, bondage and SM techniques, the whole shabaz as it were. We really have no boundries and she has quite a bit more experiance than I do sub and dom.

I'm your sponge, teach me please!