I think you are the right track with "i dont know how i can be A master without being a student."

That said, when you learn about everything you should keep in mind what you are and are not willing to do. And similarly for her. Just because she claims to be into BDSM doesn't mean she's into every single fetish out there. Most likely just a few ones in specific.

I think most importantly is to understand her emotional needs. This can be simply done by asking her. If you want to be creative, perhaps give her an assignment to write down her feelings about BDSM, and why it's important to her. If you have the mindset that you're willing to learn, like it seems you do, then that should help you identify what she is looking for.

Best of luck!

If you have any more specific questions then respond in this thread with them.