http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529

Check this link out COV- & do exactly what Put says.

But first go & look in the mirror- it comes from within, being a Dom. Confidence, self assurance & all that kinda stuff. Consistency & caring.

My own personal opinion is that I'm doing it for her, first & foremost.

Talk to the young lady- really get to know her & ask her to tell you stuff & write things down (fun reading that....)

& have fun- at least that's my way of looking at it.

Tojo -oh & let us know how it goes??