Thank you. I am very pleased with the help and suggestions I have received.I am currently reading and reflecting on all of the information. I love my wife more then anything .I'm wanting to get a book called different loving. And to denuseri Thank you also so much. I dont use the cam but to communicate and she uses it to please me .I know I didnt say that at first and I'm sorry it is indeed not what I meant. We have a very trusting relationship I have no doubt that she will try her best to accomplish what her Appretice asks. Were human of course and we all fail from time to time and I will be there to help her. Maybe one day I will be able to be called Master . But for now I will be the student and trasfer my learning to my sub. Oh and to why she is not a member here she has been extremely busy and ,but she is a member on fet.