Amazingly difficult to do, Jennifer, though that is one of her disciplinary actions. Somehow she always wheedles or sneaks her way out of it...probably because we're in an awkward place where she holds the purse strings, giving her some power over me. I can't technically STOP her, and I surmise if I tried to restrict diet too much she'd use a safe word on me. On the other hand, she has tried to lose the weight and done so successfully (75 pounds about a year ago) but has trouble keeping it off. It's a nasty struggle.

Either way, thanks for reminding me I have power over that...and that I should use it!!