I would also recomend some reading that isn't included in this site.

The book 'Screw the roses Give me the Thorns' is an excelent start.

The website www.castlerealm.com is also an excelent start.

Since your a clean slate as it were, she can somewhat mold you to how she enjoys playing, and your devotion to her and her happiness will most likely drive this.

Try new things, and talk with her LOTS. Communication between you two is rule number 1!

Rule number 2 is HAVE FUN!

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