What Do You Admire About Your Dominant?

[jonnyi's_nia]

Oh wow, where do I start? He is the smartest, most loving and caring man I have ever met! He works his ass off to provide for His family, and will do whatever He must for His family. He makes me laugh, and holds me when I cry. He doesn't worry over the small stuff, He just assures me that everything will work out on it's own and carrys on.
He is an AWESOME father to our daughter (well, his from a previous marriage). That is what made me fall in love with Him, was how He was able to interact with her. It blows my mind how patient He is with her, and with me! I am not an easy person to live with, but I definately try my hardest to please Him. He is the love of my life, my everything. He is so damn hot, plus He takes me to places sexually I have never been!

[tastychococakes]

I can get a little rambunctious at times, so I definitely admire the way handles me...firm, but caring at the same time.

[ffion]

WOOHOO! this is my favourite thread on this site - it gives me licence to do something that i sooo longed to do... wax lyrical about the person who transforms my life from the misery of the mundane, into something exciting, with seduction, spark and friendship.

this man came into my life unexpectedly, saw something in me i didn't see in myself, and is leading me gently and erotically in my sexual evolution.

more than this, he is my better intellectually - this is a huge turn-on! he insists we are equals, but different; however, i trust his judgement more than my own - time and experience has shown him to be more often right than me or most other people. perhaps because he thinks more deeply than i do, reflects more thoroughly on any situation; i am bright enough but my thought patterns are fleeting and hurried. i wish i could be more like him.

we have great discussions, invariably resulting in me learning something!

and how often does he patiently explain some subtlety, then hear me making the same mistake over, then explain patiently again, over and over! the man is a saint! well maybe not quite

his style of humour is clever and saucy; he shows caring and responsibility to those he cares about; he has a sense of honour that runs right to his core, and a pride in his self and his nationality that inspires me.

he has never rushed me. he has never made me feel uncomfortable or distrusting, going to enormous lengths to make me relax with him, working with me to help me overcome my inadequacies and fears, to the point i am now opening up areas i've never revealed to anyone ever. i feel confidence that he does not condemn me for my freakish kinks ...in fact he helps me understand why i have them.

he is very well-travelled, worldly-wise, and experienced in many areas, not least sexually. in addition he has the sexiest smile...

i love spending time with him! i feel i don't deserve his attention, but i'm very, very grateful he chose me.

[ffion]

...drives my green eyed monster insane ALL the time! *my issue, I know...working on that!

i just hate that, don't you!

- He is my equal or better in every way...and I could never respect, trust or submit to anyone that wasn't.

well said

[StillLearning]

I love that when I came to Him, and asked Him to be more Dominant, to compliment my submissiveness, he didn't turn away from me. He agreed to try to learn, to please me. He is a fantastic dad to my daughter from a previous marriage, and I adore the way He worships my feminine ability to carry our child as my pregnancy progresses. I love that He trusts me enough that at the end of our play, He will lay His head on my breast and go to sleep. I'm sure I'll discover even more as we learn and progress together.

[wolfpup]

I admire my master's understanding. Before becoming a master he used to be a sub, and he treats me fairly. He's teaching me a lot also, which I really love .

[cfs]

There are a lot of things I admire in my Dom. The ones I can think of right now is his brain, his intelligence, his wit and sense of humor, and how he know to push my limits, how it seems he knows my body more than I do, how he makes me want to cum every so often and how he brings out my other side

[steelish]

I count myself very lucky. I met and fell in love with Forge long before he became my Dom. What attracted me to him? He has self-confidence without arrogance. He is masculine without being brutish. He has a natural dominance without being overbearing. He is intelligent tempered by an open mind and understanding.

In short, he is my soul mate in all things.

[egvgomez]

I was very interested in the topic, but after reading all the treads, i couldnt find any thing that is common in all responses. Maybe just that all are in a way grateful that they found that special somebody, but couldnt find anything in common. Anybopdy can help me with this?? Waht could you point that is commun and appears in all relations that make this person so good??. I got the same feelings when i ask question to my vanilla friends (girls) Same happends whith them, they answer me and when i go into teirs life, is a totally different situation. I first notice this, when sometimes i talk to my friends that were having a bad moment w their bf, they sound like they were going to dump him as soon as they see him again, but after several days, they were happy w him again. ????? Maybe is a girl thing, or maybe i should follow an old saying that states: Don`t try to understand women, u just have to love them.

[His little one]

I admire the way He treats people, His integrity, who He chooses to be, His loyalty and strength. I love that He can know and see me to the core of my being and love me unconditionally.

To egvgomez, I did not read the whole thread but, imho, (if I understand your statement...) the responses are all different because people are different. What we love and admire most and have found in another human being is unique to each.

[VaAugusta]

I think one common trait could be that if you look for the good in people you will find it.
Thanks for the posts people! I try to soak in all the advice I can take and this is one of the best threads to help be more reassured.

[nawteeone]

The fact that he wants ME.

[sinful_desires {Nikon}]

The fact that he wants ME.

I like this!

[tina2008]

The fact that he wants ME.

That quote bears repeating especially as I feel the same about Sir. The fact that He wanted me in spite of all my issues....actually, I have no words for how He makes me feel.

He's also able to keep me calm regardless of the situation and trust me, that's no small feat!!

[ladylookin09]

Master Fox is wonderful. He is kind, stern, demanding, giving, and His "good girl" makes me melt. He makes me happy.