Quote Originally Posted by flying66 View Post
hm... 'seen' is the keyword here. Maybe I've heard of this person before and just never met them. I'd expect to sit down and chat a bit before engaging in any activities.
Depends on your fantasy...

Perhaps a hood is in order and you'd never know if someone you are meeting "for the first time" had actually intimately used you before. For a humiliation based relationship, that would be a powerful ongoing stimulus.