Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post
Has he tried asking her what turns her on?
<-- denu, I lol'd XD

There's a bdsm checklist around here somewhere and you mark the whole thing on a scale of 1-5 ... why don't you both do it and see what sounds erotic to the both of you.

Remember SSC... Safe, Sane and Consensual. There's a whole slew of bdsm safety concerns like "never leave someone tied up unattended and never leave them tied up for over an hour" and here's another big one... bacteria!!! I know in porn we see a lot of ass-to-mouth and ass-to-vagina double dipping but in real life that's rather unsanitary and can lead to very unhappy illnesses which include things like e.coli ...

bacteria lives in the large intestine, and it's not harmful there... in fact, it's healthy there... but this same bacteria would be harmful if ingested and is quite unhappy in the stomach.

as a general rule, if it goes in the ass, then it shouldn't go anywhere else after that.

browse the site, you can't touch on all the points of 'what to do' all in one go.