There are rare times when the people of the Library come together to show their united spirit and true colors. TwistedTail's post was on the spot & eloquent, and we thought it deserved a place beyond this thread...

...so...

Here it is! http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...767#post869767

And I think this thread has shown that there IS a great community of support and willingness to help... all you have to do is want to listen. Of course, no one can make you want to listen (as we've seen in this thread), but if you are willing, the answers are here and the people are waiting & willing with assistance.