If you just have to have an escort...well idk what to tell you other than to type the name of your city into google or somthing followed by the words "male escort" and see what you can get. I am not personally familiar with such things I would guess the escorts can be just as rude and judgmental only they wont express it nessesarally if you pay them enough. Not to mention unless you live in Nevada or a country were paying for sex is legal its against the law. Though I guess if you did it would be a heck of a lot easier and well I don't suppose you would be asking here then.
Oz isnt kidding about the sci fi conventions in so far as having lots of available men and little competition for their attentions...only dont expect them all to drool over you just becuase your a woman, they can be (believe it or not) just as picky as any other man in a bar or other such meat market situation when it comes to such things I suppose.
But I am in the same camp as browneyed girl when it comes to picking up men..or getting them to pick you up...dress to impress...dont look absolutely desperate, yet be approachable and eventually your prince will come...only dont expect a prince nessesarally. Additonally I dont believe age is an issue when it comes to the bars etc, I ve seen all tyopes ages and sizes getting the freak on in them and going home with people they dont know.
In any event like Oz and browneyedgilr and skittishdoe: I hope you find what your looking for out there somewhere and cultivate enough piece of mind to realize that your true beauty is inside and that the attitude you project has a lot to do with the attitude you will recieve from others in most social situations.