Quote Originally Posted by subslave123 View Post
a dream is something that occurs during rem (rapid eye movement) sleep, REM sleep is our brains way of forming new connections and healing itself.
Is this fact and or should i ask is it a proven fact and how was it measured in reality?

Quote Originally Posted by subslave123 View Post
it is likely that the dream or hallucination has been influenced by your day to day life. a dream doesnt have a specific meaning but is our brains way of making sense of what has happened and is happening around us. the submissive part was probably influcenced by your lifestyle

Ok let’s take my lifestyle, i am 59 years old, i had up until five years ago had licences to drive any vehicle on the road. I had my own successful business for six years until i closed it down due to my Mistress /Wife’s illness. During the time of my business and twelve years previous i was self employed demolition working on some roofs without harnesses eighty feet in the air. I spent fifteen years in the Special Forces, 350 military drops and 120 free fall [sky diving]. Two tours of six months Northern Ireland, a tour of the Aden in the Persian Gulf, I was in Cyprus when the Turks invaded, I was with the last 26 British soldiers to leave Libya when that nice man Col Gadaffi threw us out. I would stand toe to toe with the best man still would now [I will stand my ground win or lose but i would never lose face]. Now which part of me is my submissive way of life.

At the time of the dream my wife had been dead 18 months and i was getting my life back together, [not forgetting but moving on]


Quote Originally Posted by subslave123 View Post
and the chinese couple and dragon symbol could have been picked up anywhere.
I can live with that.

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(im a psychologist)
I am sorry and with all due respect to you and your craft, but I lost faith in psychologists and psychiatrists a long time ago, but having said that I have never needed one even if my lifestyle says I should have. The reason for this is that i think you ought to read the 13 pages of [Victims of abuse support for submissive’s]

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=15730

Once you have read the stories and heard what some of the victims were told by these so called professionals you will see where I am coming from.