Quote Originally Posted by selkie View Post
I think my grandmother mentioned that it was something for men that women put up with ha!
Then she clearly wasn't doing it right.

I was actually terrified of sex and swore I would NEVER DO THAT.
I had a similar attitude as a teenager, which was due to the fact that SEX WILL KILL YOU was drilled into me in public school to the point that my best friend somehow came to the conclusion that STDs are actually created by people having sex outside of marriage (she wasn't too bright).

Though, for some reason, the fear of actual intercourse never translated over into any other kind of sexual activity for me.

I've kept it hidden until about a year ago and finding this site has really helped me face myself and know who and what I am and be proud and happy with that.
That is the best part to hear. Becoming happy with yourself is the secret to being happy with life in general, if you ask me.