delia's $0.02 is more like $1. *lol* I agree that discussions and explanations are good, and it is harder online. Hell, the people who know me in person seem to have some trouble grasping what I'm telling them at times as well as myself trying to see where they're coming from, and it's because our lifestyles and relationships are so different. It can really get the fur flying sometimes when you're involved with a diverse group of people ranging from "old" lifestylers to newbies to bedroom kinksters to swingers to vanillas, all full of their own values, morals, judgments, etc. One of the things I've learned from my social circle is that no one can tell anyone who is right with any authority, so we agree to disagree. They ultimately decide what is right for themselves and just go with it no matter what anyone else thinks.

If I had listened to the people who told me I'm not a real submissive or that switches don't exist or that I'm a sick twisted fuck, despite what I know to be true in my heart, I wouldn't be the happy pervert I am today. Ok, the twisted fuck keeps coming up among ALL my friends, so I'm beginning to think they may be right about that at least.....*lol*