He is what he is. You've been posting these same concerns since before you moved, and you've been getting the same responses. It seems like what you're really asking this time is whether his lack of interest in your service at the moment indicates that other people are starting to come before you emotionally. Maybe, maybe not. Who knows? Probably he doesn't even know himself.

What's clear is that the poly upsets you, it always has, and he tells you what you want to hear at the moment while going ahead and doing the complete opposite. Of course you're insecure in the relationship. At this point, I can't imagine why you believe anything he says, ever.