People aren't cooke-cutter, and so don't try to fit into a term that other people have defined. We become our own definition of what BDSM means, because the way we live in the lifestyle is personalized. Now yeah there are some ways to categorize types of submission, for example, but these are broad and you shouldn't bother yourself over exactly where you fit in. And like denuseri said, if you're still new in the discovery of yourself then you shouldn't worry about labels right now anyway. Good luck. One day you will know exactly what you like, and then you will be able to have a better understanding of which type of submissive you are.