It's actually quite refreshing for someone to say "hey, this is who I am" rather than trying to play the "I am here for evvvvveryone." Seriously. That "I am good for anything" act tires after a while, and I honestly suspect there are actually *very* few people who are completely pansexual. Most have a preference for one gender over the other, and then above and beyond that, most have a preference for D/s/switch. In other words, trying to say "I am evvverything" is a load of shit LOL. I much more respect people for saying who they are. After all, isn't this Lifestyle about respecting eachother and eachother's similarities and differences? Yes, yes it is.

I don't think you are doing a damn skippy thing wrong. It just doesn't roll your rocks to set tasks for male subs. A'ight, you know what?? There are things that don't roll mine either. That's the way it is. I would much rather you just say it then try to pretend... ya know??