Quote Originally Posted by NiNLover View Post

I was wondering how other subs might have had to deal with the lifestyle change and the change in mindset?


I dont really look at it as a "change of one's self" so much as an "acceptance of one's self".

Being able to be on the outside (if however briefly) what one has been forced by society to keep hidden on the inside can be a very liberating experience.

I also believe that for the "slave"... true freedom only comes by way of the collar.