Quote Originally Posted by NiNLover View Post
Ok, so. . . I'm seriously new to this whole thing. I've read a book or two, surfed online articles and joined a couple of chatrooms (including this one). Still, I'm getting used to this new way of thinking. I've been raised to be an independent woman with a good head on her shoulders and all that.

Unfortunately I've found most of society - and unfortunately, myself - tends to think that being submissive equals losing yourself as well as your freedom and such. I was wondering how other subs might have had to deal with the lifestyle change and the change in mindset?

Thanks!
So, this post describes me perfectly. I'm strong, smart, and have a good career. Personally, I had to achieve all of that in order to have the self-confidence to admit my submissiveness despite society's attitudes.