Quote Originally Posted by distressed View Post
never met such a bunch of cheaters...one out there could wind up in my divorce hearing
I think you might be throwing the horde into a bucket that not everyone belongs in. I'm a monogamous person. So is my wife, so are our friends. I'd wager to say that what you've experienced is the exception not the rule.

Best of luck to you, and I do hope your experience with BDSM and all it includes improves over your experience thus far.