Well, I train orgasm control to help create larger and more intense orgasms... and to create a hair trigger... and my advice is don't mess with what works.

If you cum without permission, it's a nice excuse for punishing you (with more unbidden orgasms?) My girl knows she is to try her best when I push her into it without permission and also knows I take pride in being able to overcome her willpower to resist me.

It's a Catch-22. W.E.G.