Well indeed. I agree with Oz, and I am glad that you recognize that you have a gift from the Goddess, don't fuck with it (so to speak). I think that one area to explore is how you and your partner are playing at this. There is an obligation on the part of your partner to recognize when you are at or beyond the point where you can exercise control. Then partner has to either remove stimulation, or apply an alternative stimulation to discourage the orgasm. In other words there is a very close relationship between orgasm control and orgasm denial. Plus, as Oz points out, if you "fail" then there are wonderful opportunities for punishment which might include taking you right to the point of orgasm and then telling you not to cum. Phew! I would hate to be in your high heels, Girl.