Since my Dom is only my dom behind a closed bedroom door the names I get called tend to be less sweet, more sexual - I'm slut, cunt, toy... whatever comes out. And I love all those words, but I've noticed lately that one of the most powerful things is when he calls me by my real name along withn something degrading. "You're just a toy, Rianne." was recently discovered to drop me a few more notches into subspace very quickly. Mixing the two together, real life and the objectification play seems to make it that much more real and immediate, brings home that yes, I really am letting a man call me these things and do this stuff to me and yes I'm enjoying it immensely. Very intense.

Also, a few times he's called me 'Little one' or 'little girl' in conversation, which makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.