http://lovingdd.blogspot.com/
http://www.herwoodshed.com/home.html
There's a couple of others.
Yes I could never appreciate spanking, then had a correspondence with a lovely lady who got me intrigued.
The whole thing sounds kind of interesting- I don't see Taken In Hand as 'total' power exchange myself. I also don't see it as an offshoot of BDSM- it doesn't involve bondage. It's more D/s than BDSM. It's a fascinating site, I think I may still be a member....
It's interesting because while my wife & I don't engage in D/s play as such or spanking- she is kind of subservient to me. She asks if she can watch a movie, & things like that.
Tojo