"and unlike many in the BDSM community, we stress that the control is real. "

I stopped reading at this (which was pretty early), because it's a simply ridiculous statement. I figured I'd spare myself what I'm guessing was a few pages about how BDSM was a fake, hollow version of what this other thing has to offer.

I don't know exactly what Taken in Hand is, or what IDCrewDawg means when he says TPE, but I do know that beeing foolish enough to make a statement like the above is a bad sign.