I am married to my slave for almost 11 years. We had some rough times in the beginning because we were pretty young, but about 6 years ago we started playing around in the ideas of Master/slave life and discovered ourselves (so to say). What started as a game or weekend fun became our life. I can't say that there are not trying times, but we have not had battles like we used to. We spend so much time talking about everything now that there is not anything hidden between us.

I make decisions for her that I then must justify to our lifestyle. For example, the collar that she wears everyday. I would love to see her in a heavy collar, but we have children and we have people over all the time, sometimes unexpected. I don't want to have her worried about it, even though sometimes I do have her wear it at night when the kids are in bed. During the day, she wears one of several differnet styles that I chose for her. She has a choice of which one to wear on most days. She wears one from dawn to dusk as well as a bracelet 24/7.

It has been a wonderful 6 years as Master and slave and we are looking forward to many, many more. I hope that your relationship only grows through your marriage. I know ours did and continues to grow.

This is a note that I wrote to my slave wife about a year ago. I ran across it in cleaning up my computer a while ago. I feel it illustrates how deeply our relationship has grown and would use it here as an example of how slavery in marriage can better both partners.

"There is no greater testiment to the need for slavery in marriage than what we have in our own. The balance of power between us is where it is because we have realized our needs and desires for our positions in life and acted on them. I knew I was your Master long before we were married, I just did not have the knowledge of it. I did not know the words and have the knowledge to act on what I felt and knew in my heart and head. The actions of our lives and paths that we have gone down together have led us to where we are.

I have not felt the strength of a Master as I felt it the night I corrected you for your profanity. It was simple in my mind, you were not what I wanted (and what you needed) to be. The realization that I must do everything I need to to make you and mold you into what you need to be... my perfect slave wife. I know that you know what it is that I mean by that and that there is nothing degrading to you in calling you my slave wife. To me, in calling you mine, I am perfectly honoring you in your true position in our life, just as you are perfectly honoring me by humbly calling me your Master Husband. I also know that you, as I, do not feel shame or fear in our titles when we call each other by our names, but rather we feel pride and fulfillment in each other.

I desire to know what training you feel you need. I know what training I will give you and put you through, but I want to know if there is anything that you desire to improve on, whether it is sexual in nature or not. It could be anything from learning a new language to remodeling the bathroom, but the difference is that you would be doing it to my desire and under my control."

Hope you have many happy years together.