I found the taken in hand concept quite a nice change for me as I was first beginning to be drawn to a bdsm life. While looking out on the web I would go from more extreme website to the next. The taken in hand idea allowed me to be comfortable that I am a strong female and that there is nothing wrong with wanting to give myself to another.

This let me ease into bdsm and become comfortable with my limits. Which made me a better-educated sub and comfortable with the decision that this was what I truly wanted.

I agree that the website is slightly TPE; however, it does define itself differently from TPE in the physical element of the power exchange. Many in Taken in hand have no sexual difference but subscribe to a more overall submission to the head of the household.

Interesting either way, and it lead me to a community like this one where I feel comfortable with my overall choices I made when it came to my life.

Tae'lyn