We've talked a little about taking turns, but for now I will remain the top and see how it goes. It's really hard for both of us to believe, actually. I've been a people pleaser all my life, so subbing was natural. But the rush on top has been amazing! We'll keep you posted!

Oh yeah, and Silke, I just read your rambling thread.... and could relate to it very well! Now I just have to figure out how to make sure my sweet pet frog doesn't ever get that lonely!