Feedback wanted on Questions to ask a potential Dom

[Dejah Thoris]

I am glad, VA, that you shared your negative reaction. The intent of the question (and perhaps a more honest way to express it) is simply to find out how long they have been aware of thier tendencies and to gauge how long of a time period they have had to understand themselves in that context, and practice it with other people.

Thank you for helping me think that one through a little more.