Well, I was worried about the exact same thing. So I brought it up today when we were on the phone, and in all but so many words she said that if I can get her to plead, I can have it. Those limits are more to restrict what I can do to get her to plead. We've known each other for over 3 years now, so I'm gonna go with that for the moment. Before we actually start the scene(s) I will ask her explicitly of course, and at the end of the day, I do have to respect her limits.