I am grateful and happy for My pita. I spent 15 years waiting and looking and now "together" means I have finally achieved myself. It is a liberating feeling I've wanted for years ... the icing on the cake is that she says it is the same.

And I certainly agree that there's nothing un-masculine about being submissive. I happen to be dominant but look forward to a day or two of switch so I can experience, as best I can, what it is like. Sometime, TWolf, you should ask your mistress to switch with you so you have a new appreciation of how damn much work it is to do the dom thing properly!

I am, however, VERY willing .... :-)

hJ