confused

[subolive]

so in the past few months that i've been here i've found someone who makes me truley happy [he asked me to be his slave a few weeks ago] but then when i visited his page a few days ago there was another submissive and him talking like we do...[like a Master and slave not just two friendly people talking] now if they were just talking that great i don't mind about that but i've made it very clear i'm not a poly [i believe thats the correct term lol im new sorry] anyway i dont like sharing in that aspect at least. i dont know what to do, any suggestion would be greatly appriciated

-olive

[denuseri]

Odds are hon you have been sucked by what many refer to as a poser, or "online dom" who is here for the fantasy aspect but has no real intention of forming any kind of lasting real life relationship with you or anyone else.

Also I would be real leery of anyone who wants to "collar" me whom I havent met in real life and had a relationship with for a long time, real trust, takes real time, in real life, proven by real deeds.

[subolive]

thanks i think you definatly right ... unfortunatly :\

[denuseri]

Its sad but but there are a lot of "players' out there.

[didoanna]

Umm, I have to say I agree with denuseri. I think it is very important to build up a relationship over time and to allow you to communicate with your partner over a really long period.

I mean the situation I'm in has taken years to develop and can still be bumpy so I think the only thing to do is to build a relationship slowly and make the foundations of it as deep as possible.