Update.

Since I posted this I have met a few very interesting people and I thank you for responding even if it's to say "I found your ad interesting." I'm still looking but my journey has made me refine what I want.

I want a pleaser. I want someone who craves attention whether it is from my fingers, my voice, or the swat of crop. I want a girl who can't live without sufficient attention.

I want a girl for whom looks don't matter. If I were Ben Afleck or Ron Jeremy without the huge cock it shouldn't matter to you. What should matter to you is that you have a mental connection with me. You're attracted to the way I carry myself. You love the sound of my voice.

I want someone who can keep secrets. This is a very, very personal kind of relationship and requires a large degree of trust. I'm probably not going to jump right in and take control right away, I want to know who you are first. I want to personally assess if you're capable of handling a relationship of this nature. Very few women are and I'm fine with my search taking a while.

Keep writing in. Keep talking to me. I like meeting different types of people.