Quote Originally Posted by sub_in_denial
Hi,
I am 30 happily married and very into BDSM, but I am having problems admitting and accepting that I do like it.
I was bought up a catholic (Don't know if that explains it).
I like to be dominated by my husband, who loves to dom. But I can not talk about it afterwards and if he tries to instigate sex I won't play along.
He thinks I can't accept who I am?

So I guess I am looking for reassurance that I am not some sort of freak that like to be spanked.
Please help??
I don't think you are a freak....it's hard to open up to this at first. But I had a wonderful dom that helped me accept myself as I am. This place has also helped. Being around people you know are and think like you will help.

Don't close your husband out...open up to him. It's embarrassing at first..but you will find opening up to him in this area will be very intimate and well take your marriage to new heights...Open up to him. You are his wife and he your husband first and foremost. Communication is the key to any relationship. Let him love you like you need and desire....there's nothing wrong with that.