sub asking other sub interesting question

[painslut19]

i am a sub and very much into this lifestyle. my boyfriend of 2 years, however, is not so much. off and on he will try things and sometimes he likes it a lot. other times, he is sick of it. i want him to love to take control and use his power over me. any suggestions of what i can maybe do to influence him?

[Whisperz]

what have you had him try? while he is trying these "things", does he know what you are expecting? maybe this lifestyle is just not his cup of tea...it's my opinion that all you can really do is try to introduce him to what pleases you. he is either going to enjoy or he isn't...and it may be that he isn't.

i do wish you luck though, i sincerely hope that it works out for you.

Whisperz

[didoanna]

Umm...I know that this sounds silly but why not get him to write you a letter telling you all the things he likes and then you can maybe do the same. Perhaps he just doesn't know what you or expect or what you're trying to achieve.

[FaerieLytes]

hm... my suggestion? having been in a similar relationship i highly suggest showing him what you like or communicating why you like it ect, whatever you do DO NOT act up to get him to be a Dom... been there done that still trying to train it out of myself...