Quote Originally Posted by Scorpio'sWill2Power
Timberwolf's got a valid point.

You've also got to be honest with yourself as well.

= This is where I am having problems...I can't seem to accept myself for who I am.
Is this something he will accpet and want to share with you?

= yes absolutely

Does he have some preconceived notions about the lifestyle
that would make it unappealing to him to share even with
you?

= No, its me with all the hang ups.. so to speak!

Maybe sitting down and openly talking about what you need and hope
to find for yourself would be the way to go before he'd begin reading
your most intimate thoughts.
= But how do I get over the embarassment of talking about such things? I just can't look him in the eye. But when we are turned on and "in role" I am perfectly fine with it. But I can't discuss it with him afterwards. I'm just too embarassed