Consider the dominant and how he (or she) must feel having chosen a submissive who considers her (or him) self worthless. Insulting I'd say.

Of course the very best submissives are outstanding people, fully deserving of the very best in dom/mes... as are those above whom I've met. As are those above whom I still hope to meet in the future.

To Amber's point, I can empathize with your concerns for your new acquaintance, but she'll eventually convince her dom she's right and he will let her go. And she'll fall back to someone unworthy and abusive. There's nothing you can do for her, imo. She has to come to the realization herself that she is valuable, worthy, and deserving. It's happened to me... once online, once an LDR. Both women eventually convinced me I was wasting my time. I did far better starting with a girl who already knew she was valuable. We can deal with the occasional self-doubt, but not the constant self denigration. And not with the implicit insult that we've chosen someone worthless.