ok so I am back...lol

thank you for your response to this post 10K. I am so glad you have found it useful and helpful. There are always so many members here who are available to answer your questions about any number of things, and I have been fortunate enough to learn from some of the best here. I sincerely hope your journey lasts for a long time and you find the balance you need to make it work for you. I have, and I am one very lucky girl.

There is but one thing I wanted to clarify for you,

"I've always considered fetishes to be a private matter. I don't really want to share such with the public....least of all my mum, my conservative mormon mum."

I understand that, and in no way did I mean to take the 'fetish' side out in public. I simply meant, if Master wanted to take me out for a meal, I would be pleasing in every way, and no one would ever know I was Owned by Him while we were out. It is my duty to represent Him in all ways, and that includes when we are not in private. If you cannot be proud of your sub/slave at all times, then it is my belief that they are not for you. Again, just my belief.

Please feel free to comment more, as I appreciate the feedback and the different viewpoints. It is all about learning, after all!

~Master's muse~