"I understand that, and in no way did I mean to take the 'fetish' side out in public. I simply meant, if Master wanted to take me out for a meal, I would be pleasing in every way, and no one would ever know I was Owned by Him while we were out. It is my duty to represent Him in all ways, and that includes when we are not in private. If you cannot be proud of your sub/slave at all times, then it is my belief that they are not for you. Again, just my belief."

Actually I have had thoughts along these lines, the other day I was thinking about having my girls with me at a restaurant, though I would never reveal in such a context that they were my slavegirls and their chastity belts would be concealed beneath their clothes. Though it might seem a little funny to observers, a white guy like me taking out three to five asian girls to eat, but I think it would be okay. After all giving them a treat would be a good thing for them and even a slavegirl needs a rest from sex at times.

I think though that, within the harem, there should be an attitude of complete transparency, Master to slave, slave to Master, slave-sister to slave-sister, even about things we are uncomfortable talking about, and I know I have a few. However outside the harem one harem member may speak about his or her fetish or sexual feelings, but should not discuss other harem members unless that member self-identifies. The same applies between all harem members, Master, slave and slave-sister, since all members of the harem are of equal importance.