Hi vietvet, and welcome. Nice intro.. sounds like fun, and i hope you can find that again The mention of your cousin intrigued me as my first exposure to BDSM was similar. Unlike yours, mine was a submissive who was trying to get me to play with her. At the time, i had difficulty exploring much past spanking and rough nipple play. Looking back on it, if i could only roll back the clocks... Good luck in your search