When I first got into the lifestyle it was as a submissive. Unfortunately, my first dominant, who is also my ex husband was DOMINEERING as opposed to DOMINATING. I discovered the hard way that there IS a difference between the two. A BIG difference. But that's beside the point. TorianDarkwolf, as he is known here in the Library, is the ONLY person that I will be submissive to now, and we've been together for three and a half years in real life. When he and I first got together, I had listed Daddy/babygirl play as being a soft limit of mine. Over the course of time and the building of trust, Torian was able to bring out in me the babygirl submissive that I didn't know was hiding within me. I thought that I would never be that kind of submissive. Now I know that I can be. And I have found ways to be that babygirl, bratty submissive while also being the obedient slave. It's a delicate balance, and sometimes one can get the other in trouble, but that's what makes it exciting and fun. It took me a very long time to figure out how to achieve that balance, but it is what he desires of me, and I do my best to please him. I don't know if this will help at all, but that's a shortened version of my story and how I became a submissive of the kind I never thought I would.