What you have said has made sense to me.

e e norcord. I try to chill oout but it's tough. I think I am naturally wound up. (not tied....wound) I guess I just need to take a deep breath, a step back and look.

Curtis. I have thought of the idea of wearing a collar/chain but I need to find one that doesn't screem BDSM. I have a fancy one that would look rather silly with my outfit of choice...tshirt and jeans... and I have a leather dog color completel with name tag but that would draw far too much attention. I also had a nice chain mail bracelet with the BDSM symbol on it but it broke I do have a chain like necklace that I could probably wear

MrJerseyGuy...you;re right. I should probably take what we can get and be happy with that. I guess I just look back at how we were when we first got together. TG worked and I stayed at home, cleaned the house, did pretty much watever and when he got home it was all fun and games. But you;re right, take what you can get and don't complain.

As for Vinsint. I guess I will have to let you on something. My online life and my real life are one and the same. I live with my dominant who is also my husband who is also BDSM_Tourguide who is also one of the moderators here. I think that is why Curtis was giving you a "Get out of the Dog House" free card.

My submissive woes have nothing to do with him. He more than responsive and he is as frustrated as me when it comes to my troubles of focusing. But he has been very supportive