This for Finding_Fantasy
The advice from the subject line may seem extreme and off topic. It will take a great deal of explaining.
I have two brands, one I gave myself and one given by a professional dominate after many sessions and much begging. I see them while dressing. They are small circles and have diminished to small white areas on my upper thighs. They give me personal satisfaction every time I see them as they remind me of who I really am. They also serve as a promise of more to come as it may serve as a promise of future fun as your responsibilities as a parent diminish.
I do not regard them as marks of ownership.
I had mine done with a strong symbol, the steel heel of a high heeled pump. It was heated over a candle and caused only modest pain. I hate nipple clamps a lot more than the brand.