Well, this question seems about three years old but still relevent. And I suspect it's on the minds of a great many. I'm new and well, I guess I have to have a first post somewhere, so it might as well be here.

Go to Amazon online and buy Elise Sutton's "Female Domination". Read the book and then ask her to read it. Then stand back and be careful what you wished for. In all honesty, nothing happens that you both don't want to happen but it's a great way to plant the seeds.