why is it wrong for a submissive to masturbate??

[davina_]

Welcome to the world of denuseri's amusing malaprops.

Norm Crosby (I believe it was him) made a career out of them.

I believe he did, but I always liked Archie Bunker's malapropos best

And I can see both sides. Sometimes the rules and constraints of a scene don't fair as well outside the situation but then again, what meaning does the scene have if one only needs wait until it's over. I think there has to be some latitude but basically, a general understanding of what's expected.