The one I love, with whom I can't be full time just yet, is the one who fulfills my emotional, and sometimes, physical needs. If we aren't together, physically, well, let's just say I have finally gotten pretty good at phone sex, and he already was, so he can even meet those needs. That said, sometimes nothing can replace a comforting hug, which is why I have friends, too. In short, I am waiting for Mr. Right and I to be together full-time, and value myself just enough not to settle for Mr. Right Now.