What a great post and very well thought out. When I read this in it’s entirety, I can also see Myself as that person you’ve painted that will get a cup of tea, open a door, stand and slip the chair but not because of any submissive qualities more so as respecting and honoring the significant other.
I believe chivalry still has a place in this world.
Many can take these small lessons and apply them into everyday life. You have expressed a profound dignity as to who you are and what values you hold.
Well said, well done.