Mobius, you are right, my baby does take priority over all things.

She does, however, take naps and goes to bed at a resonable hour (now in any case). My concern lays mostly in the mentality of submissiveness. Not the physical. I do things like make coffe and bring it to him, among other things. And he is very reasonable in his expectations as I have to spend a lot of time with her when she is awake.

I am very mentally oriented. The physical side of a D/s relationship, while still important, is not a priority for me. I want ways to remind myself mentally of who or what I am. That is why I liked Jones' Nikka's suggestion. It is simply but sounds effective.

I also like Jane's idea of just taking a few minutes each day. (For me it would have be during a nice hot soak in the tub as that is where I do my best thinking). Again, it's a mind exercise, a thinking exercise.

Drayman, while your idea is interesting, I do not think it would work for us. Now that my c section is pretty much healed, I intend to try and start shaving again as that is how TG likes it. But thank you for the suggestion all the same.