^ I find this very interesting. I was reading up on sub drop on another site and wanted to ask a question and then I found this thread. I have a few questions, though.

What if the circumstances were slightly different? Let say an o/l or r/l M/s relastionship. Play had been happening regularly (at least 2-3 times a week). It is a healthy and happy relationship where there is ample communication, fun and training.

What if one member of the relationship needs to attend to other matters/responsibilities. Or that person is very ill and needs treatment. Or need to go on a long trip etc. And this effectively puts the relationship "on hold". It was discussed and agreed upon by both parties. Times for communication are very limited but will happen. All in all - no negative feelings of doubt/ anger/ resentment/abandonment etc.

Could the submissive still experience these feelings described as "sub drop"? (crying, mood swings, depression) There is no endorphin rush to speak of. According to what I was reading(on this other site), sub drop is to be expected.

Can it really be called sub drop? Isn't it simply semantics? Two people sharing something so intimate and deep and now the sadness and void left by circumstance?

Would a Master also be experiencing these feelings?

Ok. That was alot of questions.
(I hope it is fine to piggy back on this thread, but I thought the comments above are valid and could be applicable here.)

I look forward to learning for A/all of you.
Vicki